tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post2728253874457713599..comments2024-03-05T13:39:10.805+05:30Comments on My World – My Perception: Hey Woman Stay Girl!Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-86470506077574282372010-09-20T15:22:35.018+05:302010-09-20T15:22:35.018+05:30@ Neothehack - yeah adult adult transaction can so...@ Neothehack - yeah adult adult transaction can solve lot of issues.<br /><br />about your second comment - <br /><br /> The idea was not to talk about TA as such. the mention of TA came to clarify what does it mean to be a child ( ie don't have child ego state,when u should have adult ego state).<br /><br />A person will win, only when he or she is aware what mental game is being played at that moment. Depends a lot on the relationship and situation.<br /><br />If you alone know it is a game, of course you will win!<br /><br />In the context of this article, well hardly any correlation here. do u see any?<br /><br />RESTLESSA Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15235186296193977056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-79808364468585635752010-09-15T15:01:15.908+05:302010-09-15T15:01:15.908+05:30...and as per TA, often the winner of such mind ga......and as per TA, often the winner of such mind game is the person who returns to the Adult (Parent) ego-state first. How will you explain this in the context of what you wrote.NeoTheHacknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-43617306980236833332010-09-14T10:49:00.460+05:302010-09-14T10:49:00.460+05:30Very True. Problems usually occur in Crossed tran...Very True. Problems usually occur in Crossed transactions, where the other person is at a different level. The parent is either nurturing or controlling, and often dictates to the child, who is either adaptive or natural. <br />The ideal way is the mature and rational Adult-Adult relationship.NeoTheHacknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-2966016944350314612010-09-13T16:34:16.105+05:302010-09-13T16:34:16.105+05:30Vikram ji, that's visible from your enthu! am ...Vikram ji, that's visible from your enthu! am glad for that.<br /><br />Hey Nikita - thanks!!!<br /><br />RESTLESSA Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15235186296193977056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-51738884755185066832010-09-09T15:58:30.226+05:302010-09-09T15:58:30.226+05:30i love your thoughts !!!
thanks for penning it do...i love your thoughts !!!<br /><br />thanks for penning it down in words...The Enchantresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14224978469040589576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-47960252560037644852010-09-08T22:46:17.828+05:302010-09-08T22:46:17.828+05:30I loved reading this for I always keep the small b...I loved reading this for I always keep the small boy inside me alive and active...Vikram Waman Karvehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00290102473130246523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-28236856404369671322010-09-08T14:12:43.724+05:302010-09-08T14:12:43.724+05:30@ Raj - A relationship which has love, understandi...@ Raj - A relationship which has love, understanding, sharing and caring cannot get affected by any misleading relative or the brainwash.<br /><br />Equality doesnot mean, being wierd. Asking for freedom to go out late at night is not equality.<br /><br />You seem to have confused what i wrote. Home makers work hard and round the clock and are not given any remuneration. so it is a tougher job.<br /><br />RESTLESSA Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15235186296193977056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-30910844240715225642010-09-08T14:09:13.220+05:302010-09-08T14:09:13.220+05:30@ GIRISH - THANKS!
@ Sharbouri - I know, it happe...@ GIRISH - THANKS!<br /><br />@ Sharbouri - I know, it happens with all!<br /><br />@ Sakhi - well said! good one!<br /><br />@ BA - hmm live to work, work to live!<br /><br />@ Vaish - that was the aim! get in touch with her and listen what she says?!<br /><br />@ Vee- :)<br /><br />@ Anju - thanks. ok sure.<br /><br />@ Monika - welcome Monika! yeah so much trouble would be solved and people would be relaxed as well.<br /><br />RESTLESSA Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15235186296193977056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-80174939169044988872010-09-08T08:18:17.931+05:302010-09-08T08:18:17.931+05:30very well said, if only we keep the child in us al...very well said, if only we keep the child in us alive the world certainly would be a much better place to live for us and for others :)Monikahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02627040210376581730noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-85018575399143776962010-09-07T21:37:21.227+05:302010-09-07T21:37:21.227+05:30lovely post
even i have written on similar topic
...lovely post<br />even i have written on similar topic<br />do read if u get time<br />http://anjugandhi.wordpress.com/2009/05/31/the-child-in-me/Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-21631435312211289562010-09-07T20:32:08.788+05:302010-09-07T20:32:08.788+05:30quite true and quite a useful gyan that helps us i...quite true and quite a useful <i>gyan</i> that helps us in being content with our lives.Veehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01191763226046803992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-15730370356615632912010-09-07T00:17:02.960+05:302010-09-07T00:17:02.960+05:30This post kept me a little baffled.
Any relationsh...This post kept me a little baffled.<br />Any relationship is bound by love, sharing and understanding. If there is good understanding and sharing of responsibilities between couples, a feeling of inequality will not rise between a man and a woman, because in reality, both sexes share equal rights. People may agree to whatever we say or write, but the very same people may not be able to practice it in reality. <br />Though it is hard to find perfect couples these days, such posts may be misleading to those who found true equality in their marital life. At times differences arise just because a lady's mind is brainwashed either by media or by some relatives.<br />For a lady going outside in the middle of the night alone cant be considered as a fact for equality.<br />For a lady wearing revealing costumes (when number of rape cases are increasing) cannot be a matter of equality.<br />If she is a house wife, we cannot say that she is not considered equal. Do you think being a house wife is an easy task? <br />But yes she should be free to develop her self as a matter of equality.Raj Anoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-16352413428006631572010-09-06T22:04:35.768+05:302010-09-06T22:04:35.768+05:30Hola! Got reminded of my Psychology classes with T...Hola! Got reminded of my Psychology classes with Transaction analysis! There is always a child/kid hidden inside every women. It's just,we dont have time to bring that kid out! With so much of complicated roles to play, mostly, we end up living a life - not for US, but for others (husby, child etC). So much of sacrifice goes into the life...Oh god...Anuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07824164089499448242noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-77763431949483683552010-09-06T21:59:17.979+05:302010-09-06T21:59:17.979+05:30true, how often do we need to remind ourselves tha...true, how often do we need to remind ourselves that we were not sent down here to just work to survive, its a place for everything.Blasphemous Aesthetehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16417596461540852006noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-61806301708654233882010-09-06T19:44:17.808+05:302010-09-06T19:44:17.808+05:30Haha, I think we often take ourselves too seriousl...Haha, I think we often take ourselves too seriously and that's why we stop being children...it reminds me of a quote I love, "You don't stop playing because you grow old, you grow old because you stop playing..."Sakhi Shahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16140147799115440477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-80454431716628349092010-09-05T20:40:23.627+05:302010-09-05T20:40:23.627+05:30I love keeping the little girl alive but its hard ...I love keeping the little girl alive but its hard work - the older one gets, more are the pressures from around to let her go.<br /><br />nice piece.শর্বরী - Sarbarihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09777871701522661838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-65717576750261463742010-09-05T19:01:45.016+05:302010-09-05T19:01:45.016+05:30Everybody should take some 'me time' &...Everybody should take some 'me time' & do things which they like..<br />Very nice post & everything is quite true!!Girishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17505842258680363097noreply@blogger.com