tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post2438350394118921229..comments2024-03-05T13:39:10.805+05:30Comments on My World – My Perception: Live In Relationships - A Woman's PerspectiveUnknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger30125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-50979360739832153922013-03-14T21:09:02.863+05:302013-03-14T21:09:02.863+05:30Whether it is a live in arrangement or marriage......Whether it is a live in arrangement or marriage...both require emotional commitment, love and understanding.Sebastian Thomashttp://www.pheromonesattract.net/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-9338809759322407562011-03-14T20:53:56.603+05:302011-03-14T20:53:56.603+05:30you have raised the question and have given answer...you have raised the question and have given answers too......its a serious topic to write in.....live in relationships just lets the individual be themselves, there is no bondage, family pressure. but in any way will it lead to aid our culture?.....we are what we are and we shouldn't loose ourselves in the name of liberty and modernization.<br /><br />suppose if the relationship breaks are we all matured enough to handle the situation. will the families be happy enough to accept the situation specially think of the girl side. <br /><br />if u are care free having no real worries and if u are adventurous and willing to experiment u can try on a live. if u have any kind of commitment in hand it wont suit us. especially and u mentioned what if a child has been born out of the relationship. imagine the horrible life the kid is going to have.........the criticshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14212062315291162243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-89421702319691197992011-02-22T10:09:28.241+05:302011-02-22T10:09:28.241+05:30Excellent post. I was checking constantly this blo...Excellent post. I was checking constantly this blog and I’m impressed! Very useful info specially the last part :) I care for such info much. I was seeking this certain information for a long time. Thank you and best of luck.Build Confidencehttp://www.meetingwomensecrets.com/build-confidencenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-41353647213626659932011-01-25T11:36:19.745+05:302011-01-25T11:36:19.745+05:30Indeed live in relationship is not so applicable a...Indeed live in relationship is not so applicable and yet no acceptable in the eye of the inasmuch their companionship as a couple has not blessing from God.mancardshttp://mancards.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-73127030484293097722011-01-20T02:05:43.192+05:302011-01-20T02:05:43.192+05:30Live in is 'live life!' but it works as lo...Live in is 'live life!' but it works as long as both are free birds. Once either one start thinking of having a nest and if there is a disagreement it is going to be exactly same as a marriage - May be with an exception of legal terms. Every stage of married life, every stage of breakup, every stage of pain needs to be walked through if one is involved!<br /><br />It might work as long as both can be untouchy and both are sure of it! <br /><br />Else it might be no different from marriage without a legal binding!bharat chandranhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540445227237188706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-32420955393184611072010-11-26T11:06:04.742+05:302010-11-26T11:06:04.742+05:30Я бы еще кое-чего добавил конечно же но по сути ск...Я бы еще кое-чего добавил конечно же но по сути сказано практически все.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-8587154901766791822010-11-23T19:06:20.305+05:302010-11-23T19:06:20.305+05:30Да уж Читаю и понимаю, что ничего не понимаю о чем...Да уж Читаю и понимаю, что ничего не понимаю о чем речь:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-29528543779099637442010-11-17T20:01:01.154+05:302010-11-17T20:01:01.154+05:30Thanks due to the fact that this nice article, it&...Thanks due to the fact that this nice article, it's very conspicuous blogsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-77859146491761598732010-11-04T12:53:31.120+05:302010-11-04T12:53:31.120+05:30Rightly said pheromones (well, its so awkward to c...Rightly said pheromones (well, its so awkward to call you by that, but there are no second options). Marriages are a social contract. thats why we get married in front of the whole community. When we marry with loads of people and with much fanfare and spending so much money, we tend to think twice before leaving a person, just because we dont like the way one dress, or one talk or other silly matters. thats why society has brought up the ritual of marriage. Live-in Relations are just a contract between individuals which has no locus standii, and as you said, only highlights the fun part of man-woman relationship.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-25146917690190006292010-11-03T10:14:17.686+05:302010-11-03T10:14:17.686+05:30I definitely agree that most of the relationships ...I definitely agree that most of the relationships start because marriage is not possible or not desired at that point of time, but living and exploiting someone only for fun is not called for at all. Thank you for sharing this so informative.<br /><br />iseypheromoneshttp://www.luvessentials.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-3440894812653881982010-10-25T02:20:38.683+05:302010-10-25T02:20:38.683+05:30Отличная статья! большое спасибо автору за интерес...Отличная статья! большое спасибо автору за интересный материал. Удачи в развитии!!!<br />http://www.miriadafilms.ru/<br /> myworldmyperception.blogspot.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-9726256737881381492010-09-13T20:34:26.425+05:302010-09-13T20:34:26.425+05:30Nicely put.
I like the Indian judicial system!.. c...Nicely put.<br />I like the Indian judicial system!.. corrupt and slow as it may be..<br />Its still way better than many nations world wide. First and foremost it is very dynamic, It is not stagnant and keeps pace with the modern era.<br /><br />About the live in relationships, I think the concept is fantastic,but shud be taken into a huge consideration given the fragile nature of attachment in such relationships.<br />I am a strong opponent of arranged marriage, though they have higher success rate than love marriages, its still just quantity, not quality.<br /><br />live in relationships should have more judicial representation than that is available currently..xyzandmehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02349572429957382797noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-60295867401262368162010-09-13T18:58:42.630+05:302010-09-13T18:58:42.630+05:30This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-18303366579339051362010-09-13T12:39:52.805+05:302010-09-13T12:39:52.805+05:30This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-71260869481416258572010-09-10T17:52:26.363+05:302010-09-10T17:52:26.363+05:30This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-41986742153920528642010-08-31T16:43:15.354+05:302010-08-31T16:43:15.354+05:30I personally do not support Live in relationships ...I personally do not support Live in relationships !!<br /><br />its always good to get married if you truly are in love...<br /><br />love without commitment lacks the spice of it...The Enchantresshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14224978469040589576noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-64837039766369596592010-08-31T13:29:57.806+05:302010-08-31T13:29:57.806+05:30@ Purba - Thanks dear for giving your view! I agre...@ Purba - Thanks dear for giving your view! I agree with all but one point. The freedom to walk out is no the same in both the relationships. In live in nobody comes to try to patch up things, unlike marriage.<br /><br />@ Nalini Hebbar - thanks! That was so encouraging!<br /><br />@ Gyanban - wow! well said. Agree with all, but premarriage grooming??? didnot get that.<br /><br />@ Pratibha - Till now women have rihgts in Live in only to the extent of saving them from exploitation ( mainly sexual). Beyond that not much has been said by the law. But, a live in would not be based on any sincerety then of course, it will fall flat.<br /><br />@ Hitesh - yes there should be a law for kids. But law alone cannot bring acceptability in society, we people have to change the way we look at it.<br /><br />@ Just a pen in my hand - thank you so much for your kind words!! yes, we should change our view.<br /><br />RESTLESSA Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15235186296193977056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-71152680513397541192010-08-27T23:52:47.973+05:302010-08-27T23:52:47.973+05:30hey....wow...u touched a topic that most people al...hey....wow...u touched a topic that most people always shy away from...some are just plain afraid and others ignorant of the fact that this is a truth of life and is happening right at the very moment ....i like you assertions....and i like the post....informative and assertive....very well written....Live-in relationships are not acceptable according to Indian traditions , but the key word here is tradition....it's good to hold on to the great values of the yesteryears , but in this age where life is lived in the fast lanes with short cuts and compromises to achieve a greater goal being the mantra , its not very hard to imagine that this is not just a fashion statement or a representation of rebellion , nor is it a taboo anymore , atleast to the 3G generation......we live in an age where some traditions have to be moulded into something more manageable and some others, which give rise to plain simple drivel, only look good in the idiot box....well , keep up the good work...tk cr..."just a pen in my hand"https://www.blogger.com/profile/03664096003722573838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-24104007136197050752010-08-27T18:15:16.784+05:302010-08-27T18:15:16.784+05:30i agree...that court shld come with laws for kinds...i agree...that court shld come with laws for kinds born to live in couples.....<br /><br />i support live in especially cause if it works well then the divorce rate will also come down....couples would be able to judge their compatibility before committing for life........ <br /><br />i also hope other urban cities,at least, shld also legalize live inHitesh Rawathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11445682649449414508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-81654153081411027912010-08-27T14:26:44.633+05:302010-08-27T14:26:44.633+05:30which so ever govt. legalize live in relationship ...which so ever govt. legalize live in relationship without prior commitment,sincerity towards relationship ,responsibility,loyalty etc etc any relationship will fail.Then why to escape from marriage .To me live-in realationships with commitment+rights=marriage .<br />all in all great subject u chose.gr8 job.Dr. Pratibha Singhhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16551548865707335224noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-87217024907750470862010-08-27T07:57:33.715+05:302010-08-27T07:57:33.715+05:30As the classic economic theory suggests the scarci...As the classic economic theory suggests the scarcity of resources will give rise to new inventions, live in relationships are exactly the out come of that. <br /><br />As we move ahead in time, we will see live in relationships will be a function of at least the following parameters -<br /><br />1.Practicality.<br />2.Pre marriage grooming.<br />3.real estate costs<br />4.equivalent of a pre-nuptial agreement.<br />5.economies of scale.<br />6.lack of better alternatives.<br /><br />each of these parameters will be subject to pros and cons, just like anything else in the society..there will be the good, the bad and the ugly of it.aayanmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14881273343571611950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-31910693192151872182010-08-26T22:05:02.701+05:302010-08-26T22:05:02.701+05:30great post...I agree with you totally...Indian hus...great post...I agree with you totally...Indian husbands are just THERE...nothing more nothing less...and the wife is just a daughter in law with no other identityNalini Hebbarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15829943036546766563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-20265723596611606042010-08-26T20:05:20.045+05:302010-08-26T20:05:20.045+05:30Whether it is a live in arrangement or marriage......Whether it is a live in arrangement or marriage...both require emotional commitment, love and understanding.<br /><br />The pain will be as intense if the relationship fails.<br /><br />A woman's emancipation stems from her ability to walk out of unpleasant relationships, to be able to take her own decisions and be strong emotionally.<br /><br />The nature of the relationship is immaterial.Purbahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06345755953291104000noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-57371351656518360792010-08-26T15:35:48.515+05:302010-08-26T15:35:48.515+05:30@ D2 - A very well worded and framed comment, must...@ D2 - A very well worded and framed comment, must say, am impressed! <br /><br />yeah, unfortunately, ppl look down upon them. and yes, honour killings are such a shame to live with. also, yes both the partners are equally responsibile, undoubtedly.<br /><br />Thanks!<br /><br />@ vini, most of the relationships start because marriage is not possible or not desired at that point of time, but living and exploiting someone only for fun is not called for at all. And yes traditional marriages give security, but don't guarantee on love. But really thanks for sharing your views vini.<br /><br />@ Vaish - dear thanks for that insight into the issue. No, i am hopeful, that this change would be faster, esp becoz of the huge financial leap this generataion has acheived, empowering them in a big way. Anyways, lets hope for the best!<br /><br />RESTLESSA Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15235186296193977056noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2021738822692225370.post-60744467660282132652010-08-26T15:19:33.724+05:302010-08-26T15:19:33.724+05:30@ ARVIND - hope u meant Govt to make some law for ...@ ARVIND - hope u meant Govt to make some law for the welfare of children.<br /><br />@ Vikramji - thanks for commenting and a query definitely makes me feel good! Well, u r right, when i was typing it, it struck to me too. But, I used this term, "no commitment", loosely, only to mean "no commitment for marriage", as is generally used by poeple in relationships. Moreover, there is no real certainity of future in live-ins, depends completely how the things are going. It does give the freedom to part, when things are beyond repair. Hence, no real commitment, but surely what you meant was dedication towards the relationship or friendship, that is and should be the very basic element in any human relationship.<br /><br />And thanks for raising that question!<br /><br />RESTLESSA Restless Mind With A Sensitive Heart!https://www.blogger.com/profile/15235186296193977056noreply@blogger.com